“When two people marry they become in the eyes of the law one person, and that one person is the husband.”
~Shana Alexander, State-by-State Guide to Women’s Legal Rights, 1975
Thank you for your compassion and understanding.
Thank you for letting me know my place.
Thank you for explaining to me that being hurled into furniture is only a misdemeanor
And not worthy of a permanent record.
Thank you for clarifying that fear of death is not the same as a real threat
And not a valid reason for a restraining order.
Thank you for pointing out “it’s not like he hit you”.
Thank you for focusing on how few my outward bruises were
While completely ignoring the gaping wounds inside.
Thank you for reminding me that a five year relationship
Is not something you just throw down the drain.
Thank you for your ridicule
And your attempt to publicly humiliate me.
Thank you for having a laugh with your coworkers
At my expense.
Thank you for letting me know that I was wrong to wait a day
And that I should have called during the beating to save you time and paperwork.
Thank you for making it clear that public servants are only available to serve men
And that the law provides no protection for women
Thank you for leaving me to retrieve my belongs without an escort
Because you were to busy to get up from your break.
Thank you for not only judging me for my own mistakes,
But for the mistakes of every woman who came before me.
Thank you for making me feel victimized all over again.
Thank you for being part of the problem.
I found this post because you said you recently went through your old posts. Well, I have a post for you! I’m sure you’re this strong by now, but if you could repost this on your site, abused persons reading your site might feel better. http://ghartandphoto.wordpress.com/category/people/cops/
Don’t ever let the police bully you. Internal Affairs is the answer. Love your blog, btw 🙂